Anti-aging?

So I've decreased my face care system. I go in spurts of NEEDING fancy products. I'm currently in the "we have a baby, I work part time, I'm trying to be frugal and save the planet by not using paper plates, and really I'd prefer to spend money on my child who looks super cute in everything I buy, and I'd rather buy some shoes because I think shoes are cuter than my face, except now that I'm noticing 'fine lines' phase."

And I read some article about how this girl started washing her face with the dove beauty bar and her skin became amazing. And, if you tell me I need something, basically I believe it. Until I don't anymore and I need something expensive... like the 1/2 a liter of Purity Made Simple I have. And my skin got dry like a year ago (which I blame on the baby) and I started using the cetaphil cream all over my body and on my bebe. So basically, I spend like $15 every few months on face care. However, I need some anti-aging items. I'm getting some "fine lines." I didn't get carded at the grocery store when I bought my box of wine the other day. Yes, I said box-o. The girl actually said, "Wow, I didn't even realize this was alcohol." And I then asked if she needed my ID. She laughed.

Not funny. Not funny. So what do you use? What do you believe works? What should I buy? How do I counteract this progress? I don't think the *roman cokes I have on my walks are working.

(roman coke is what Ben thought rum and cokes were in high school.)